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“Vacation” is over…

Posted by gratrueities on September 12, 2010

Well…”vacations” may be somewhat more accurate. Let’s just say, for the moment, that we’ve been occupied with things other than GraTRUEities and took a brief (in the big picture) hiatus. That said, our dining and tipping experiences have not gone by the wayside by any means! We’ll soon catch up here on some of that but, for the moment, we’re just going to pick up where we left off…and a few things have caught our attention lately.

For one, the Food Network recently put out this little blurb titled  25 Things Chefs Never Tell You” – you just know this somehow bears a bit of bad news! Besides letting you know which days of the year they most hate to work (warning – don’t eat out on New Years Day) , the fact that they like and eat fast food, cook while sick, etc. we learn that chefs are also discriminating tippers and do tend to punish poor service. Hmmm…interesting. Make of that what you will and be sure to check out the rest of the items on the list. You might be surprised, or at least find your thought affirmed.

More recent news on the restaurant front: Screaming babies not allowed! While, in our opinion, it’s questionable as to whether or not this is discrimination, the concept has apparently been well received by customers. As someone who recently flew seated next to a couple with a baby, I have to say I can see the potential for this idea to catch on. I happen to love babies and can remember when my own children would act out in public so am likely more tolerant and sympathetic in such instances. However, I could see the hackles rising around me as the baby understandably fussed. In any case, we will be watching with interest to see how this trend unfolds or if it is quickly stopped in the legal trenches.

We’ll soon be back to share updates of our dining and/or tipping ventures. In the meantime, tip well and often and “look both ways before crossing the street.” **

** More on this later

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“Latest Generation” Waiter

Posted by gratrueities on April 6, 2010

I like you! (“You Got Me” by Colbie Caillat)

It was bound to happen one day…introducing robo-waiters that serve not only food, but also cutting edge entertainment.

Hajime, a Japanese restaurant recently opened (to the tune of 30 million baht or $927,600!) in Thailand, brings high-tech dining to a whole new level. Customers order on touchscreens and are then served by imported Japanese “motorised servants” that (oops – almost wrote “who” here!) deliver meals along with some intriguing (and, dare we say, electric “techno”) dance moves!

Striking, that reference in the article to “motorised servants” – not exactly an interchangeable term for waiter…or certainly not an acceptable one. Perhaps more of a cultural reference – note the spelling?

And speaking of being politically correct, would one leave a tip in this case?

(Potential) GraTRUEity #54 – Time to reboot?

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Bad Tipper Advisory!

Posted by gratrueities on April 3, 2010

Just last month a Winston-Salem, NC woman was banned from a restaurant for being a bad tipper. So…be forewarned! (You know who you are, if you are at risk.)

Here is the story: Monica Covington, a repeat customer at Kanpai Japanese Steak and Seafood House, was banished from the restaurant for refusing to agree to pay an 18% minimum gratuity.  This is where things get somewhat tricky, because apparently the stated restaurant policy is that 15% will be added for parties of six or more. Therefore, it seems clear that Monica’s previous visits had earned her the reputation of being a poor tipper. The restaurant took measures to address her pattern by tacking 18% onto her bill. She claims she paid the gratuity the first time without argument – even though she was with a party of only three. (Hmm…I wonder what these other people think – have seen no further mention of them). However, upon a return visit (she must have really liked this place), when informed up front that she would be required to pay an 18% gratuity, she struck back. Thus, came Monica’s petition citing discrimination and asking people to boycott the restaurant for unfair business practices. The restaurant next retaliated with a its own cry for support and continued attempts to tell their side of the story. As you might imagine, both parties have their advocates.

Further, there was no consensus on the recent OpenTable discussion regarding the incident. People remain very divided on the subject of patrons vs. servers – and, as we’ve said here before, the opinions are not split straight down the line between customer and server, as one might expect.

This case is also curious in that the customer (Monica) obviously wanted to return to the restaurant. She was not tipping poorly because she was dissatisfied, but because that is her “way” (hate to call her cheap, but it seems that it may be so). Why she wanted to return after being singled out for her tipping habits is somewhat of a mystery – clearly her love of teppanyaki won out over pride!

As of last report, the case seems to be heading toward the courts! So…something to think about – review your tipping habits at your favorite restaurants and make sure you are a welcome repeat customer. Or one day, you too could find yourself banished!

GraTRUEity #53 – “You keep me coming back for more.”  “P.S. And I hope you’ll allow me to continue!”

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15% Tipper and Proud of It?

Posted by gratrueities on April 1, 2010

Well…that is the impression one gets when scrolling to the bottom of the recent New York Times City Room blog post by David Sax. The disclaimer at the end of the post states that he is a “journalist and the author of “Save the Deli” (Houghton Mifflin), lives in Park Slope and always tips 15 percent.”

Note – Mr. Sax does not claim to tip “at least” 15% – but, rather, “15 percent,” period. Hmmm…is that really what he means to say? If so, that is curious, considering he has written a book on dining (even if it is deli dining) from which he has, in theory, profited! See him in action doing research at right!

That said, the post, titled Hey, Waiter! Just How Much Extra Do You Really Expect? raises some valid points and, despite the title and surly tone, does not truly take an anti-server stance. For instance, Mr. Sax takes issue with the less-than-minimum wages servers are paid. He challenges the gratuitous tip, but supports rewarding a job well done. Not surprisingly, the article incited both the ire and support of many NYT readers and has, to date, generated well over 1200 comments.

Obviously, tipping remains a controversial subject  – who, when, how much and for what? Interestingly, the comments generated from the article did not divide straight down the line between customers and servers. Some of the most intriguing comments are featured in a follow-up piece – Readers Split the Difference on Tipping.

We’re always interested in the many points of view that surround the custom of the tip and these are particularly insightful comments.

Also, it makes us wonder what GraTRUEity might be appropriate for someone such as Mr. Sax: “I always tip 15% no matter what…so read nothing into this tip.”  “Underpaid workers unite!” ?? We’re open to suggestions!

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Celebrity Waiters “Trumped”

Posted by gratrueities on March 26, 2010

Who would you prefer to be your server? Rod Blagojevich singing his familiar tune of the innocent, wronged and dedicated public servant or Cyndi Lauper singing True Colors? Well, that is an easy one for me – though Blago provided some entertaining moments during the opening episode of the new season of Celebrity Apprentice. Further, Donald Trump lauded him throughout the show for his courage. (I suppose it is a form of courage – exposing himself to continued public judgment and ridicule!).

The new Apprentice season opened with Donald Trump thowing out a restaurant challenge – men vs. women – in which each team took over a diner for an afternoon. The team that made the most money, including tips, was declared the winner and awarded the money for their Project Manager’s favorite charity. Somehow, team Rock Solid (you guessed it, the mens’ team) outperformed team Tenacity. Most surprising – Blago (sans hairnet), was the lone server for the men’s team while Cyndi Lauper was supported by her cohorts Sharon Osbourne and WWE star, Maria Kanellis. I have to agree with Mr. Trump, it’s somewhat amazing that these women did not rake in enough tips to surpass the men! Not only did they have power in numbers, but they were clearly more dedicated to their mission. Evidence: Joan Rivers, on a *secret mission* to judge the two diners found Rob B to be somewhat lacking in attention! His primary focus seemed to be defending his reputation to the customers with statements such as these (From The Five Dumbest Things Blagojevich Said according to the Chicagoist)

  • On cooking for the celebrity-run diner challenge: “I didn’t cook at all when I was governor. I was cooking up results for people.”
  • On being a waiter at the celebrity-run diner and raising money for charity: “In some ways, this is just another public service.”
  • To customers in the diner: “They stole me away from the people who hired me.”
  • To customer in the diner: “Yeah, I didn’t do those things, by the way. I’m here to serve.”
  • On raising money for charity: “I’m in an unusual position these days. When I come calling for money, somebody’s listening and people on the other end know it.”

Service aside, the men pulled out the win – and that despite the $10,000 bonus the women received via the Joan Rivers undercover mission. Strategy and a higher-priced, gourmet menu (thanks to celebrity chef Curtis Stone) keyed their success. Service, even celebrity service, did not make the difference in the end.

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Splash…into the “tip pool” we go!

Posted by gratrueities on March 1, 2010

Just last week, the 9th U.S. Court of Appeals ruled in favor of restaurants. The court found that restaurants have the right to create a “tip pool” requiring servers to share a percentage of their tips with kitchen staff  as long – and this is the important caveat – as the restaurant pays their servers at least minimum wage.

A Portland, Oregon waitress claimed that the pooling arrangement violated the Fair Labor Standards Act. Misty Cumbie  argued that because the tip pool at the Vita Cafe (sounds like a place to try soon based on Yelp reviews!) included employees who are not “customarily and regularly tipped employees,” it was invalid under the labor act.  The court did not agree.

This can all get a bit complex – but, to simplify, the restaurant owners wanted their servers to share with the “back of the house” and at least one server, Misty, was not happy with this arrangement.  However, because Misty and her fellow servers were paid at least the Oregon minimum wage (which was BTW $2.10 above Federal minimum wage!), the restaurant owners were not eligible for a tax “tip credit.” Hence, the servers were deemed to be compensated fairly  – the opinion of the court was that “Cumbie received a wage that was far greater than the federally prescribed minimum, plus a substantial portion of her tips.”

Tip pooling seems to be a hot litigation trend of late. This past year, Chili’s Grill & Bar servers won a large settlement against the chain’s parent company, which intends to appeal. Dealers at The Wynn Las Vegas are currently suing their employer for 35 million in back pay and penalties, also claiming that the resort’s tip pool violates state labor laws (we shall see how/if the Oregon case impacts this decision). The ruling for the Wynn case has now been delayed until May. If the Wynn employees are victorious, expect a flood rather than a splash! In fact, they may soon be hiring -if interested, you may want to check this out.

Whether or not legal action enters into the picture, there seem to be strong feelings – both pro and con – on tip pooling. We, at GraTRUEities, see both sides of the argument. It’s complicated because the server is ultimately the one with whom we interact (i.e. puts up with the customer), but we also appreciate clean plates, glasses, silver and a full water glass – and of course a delicious meal! We, therefore, feel that the people who make all that happen should be duly rewarded as well. Of course, in an ideal world restaurant owners could/would pay all of their employees enough that they did not depend on tips for wages, but with so many restaurants struggling to stay open, it seems that labor costs are a problem. And all this brings us right back to tipping! We, the customer/patron fills the void. More to follow on this topic…

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GraTRUEities in SF – Nob Hill Cafe

Posted by gratrueities on February 13, 2010

After an amazing late afternoon bike ride, a friend and I had dinner at Nob Hill Cafe in San Francisco. This is a classic neighborhood Italian place; small, cozy, crowded, great food and wine at a reasonable price. The portions are large so we shared a classic Cesar Salad and the Pizza special–buffalo mozzarella, tomato and basil. Thin crust and delicious. We opted for a Napa Valley Pinot instead of an Italian wine.

My friend, and all the other neighborhood regulars, know the wait staff on a first name basis. All of the staff, front of the house, bussers and table servers were absolutely delightful, even on a very crowded evening. 

We left a GraTRUEities card to complement our monetary gratuity: “A sense of timing is a mark of genius.”

In addition to great service and good, homestyle Italian cuisine, maybe  it was the invigorating bike ride across the Golden Gate Bridge and into Marin that made this dinner so memorable!

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So Many Secrets!

Posted by gratrueities on February 7, 2010

Who knew? So so many secrets…and so many waiters who don’t care to share?

This just in:  Meaghan Cameron’s 7 Secrets Waiters Won’t Tell You When Dining Out on Valentine’s Day. This piece continues the theme that began with 30 Secrets Your Waiter Will Never Tell You and 20 Secrets Your Waiter Won’t Tell You “will never” vs. “won’t” both from Michelle Crouch for Readers’s Digest.com.

The seven most recent *revelations* read more like benign suggestions for Valentine’s Day diners – well…any diners, really – while the  previous lists included many “truths not-to-be-revealed” that we candidly wish had not been.

The “7 Secrets” for hopeful romantics include things like “Make reservations early” (not exactly a state secret), “Don’t drink too much” (generally speaking, a wise idea), followed by “Order a bottle of wine if you are both going to have more than one glass” (a value-based hint). Clearly, the list is for the most part common sense, especially for anyone who dines out regularly. However, if a person is considering proposing at Valentine’s Day dinner they may want to check it out! Apparently, not a good idea…and very “cliche.”

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GraTRUEities Demo: The Standing Tip

Posted by gratrueities on January 3, 2010

Using your tip to create a stand. Demonstrated at Cafe Bernardo, Davis, CA.  Excellent New Year’s Day late breakfast, and friendly, fun service. A must stop if you are in the area.

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Has The Spirit Moved You?

Posted by gratrueities on December 21, 2009

Have you completed your holiday tipping yet – or at least strategized as to how you plan to recognize those who have made your life a little bit better or easier this past year?  If not, time is running out!

On another note, have you felt the urge to spread a little extra joy by beefing up your regular tips?  Or…are you feeling pinched by all the extra holiday expenses?  Do servers find that their tip percentages are greater or reduced during the holidays?

Personally, I feel moved to be  more generous at this time of year  – caught up in the spirit of the season – and “pay the price” in January!

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